My Water Boy
September 13, 2011 Leave a comment
(Video Taken: Fun wet moments with Elkan, Bintan Indonesia)
E V E R Y D A Y . B E A U T I F U L . P U R P O S E F U L
September 13, 2011 Leave a comment
(Video Taken: Fun wet moments with Elkan, Bintan Indonesia)
September 10, 2011 1 Comment
My parents and my wife were huge fans of the old Musical Fountain and “Monkey Kiki” at Sentosa. It was grand, magical and powerful. Best of all, it was free for all to watch. Even after watching the old show so many times and many years later, we were still deeply mesmerized by its magic.
Last evening, my sister treated the whole family to the new “Musical Fountain”. We were all very excited. My parents, aunt & uncle were expecting another magical night. Unfortunately, the new show was a letdown and we left in disappointment.
Contrary to what the website said, Songs of the Sea fails to deliver “a mesmerizing show” with a live cast of boring and distracting performers who can’t lip-synced and synchronize with the dance steps and beats , out-dated visual effects, lasers and pyrotechnics! Poor storyline, too much talking in-between acts, awful eerie kelong huts settings, choppy music scene and unbelievable cheesy scripts, the 45-min Songs of the Sea fails to bring back the magic of the old Musical Fountain. It was flat (and disjointed) from the beginning to the end. The performers tried hard to get the audience to clap and participate – it was an appalling effort. The finale song “I did it” is pathetic – an anti-climax. (No wonder it drew such weak applause from the audience!). There is simply no connection between the performers and the screen behind. Unlike in the previous Musical Fountain, there was one star character and his animated sidekick “Kiki”. There was a surprise moment when the human character disappeared into the letter “O” and found himself in the magical world of special effects. Songs were upbeat and catchy.
Sorry Sentosa, this is certainly not worth SGD15 or even SGD10 to watch. In my opinion, it loses its claim as a “World Class Show”. This show is perfect for young kids but it fails to impress the adults. Especially for those who fell in love with the old grand Musical Fountain, there is nothing in this show that brings back the emotional-connection. I expected more with this new entry fee but what I got was worse than before. The creative and music director needs to know that he cannot conceal poor music and drama with water jets, flame bursts, lasers and pyrotechnics. It is bad in my view – it seems to me that the show producer wants a bit of everything. And no…the multiracial songs at the beginning don’t connect at all! I wonder if the tourists understand them. Skin-deep beauty doesn’t last long. It is the simple pure substance that connects the minds and touches the hearts.
Time to change the scripts and the scores. Rejuvenate the old charm and magic of our favorite Sentosa Musical Fountain. Bring back the soul and a good story. Don’t kid the audience with these “blings” and “bangs”! Leave the fireworks for the National Day Parade.
September 8, 2011 Leave a comment

This week, it is school holidays and I promised my boy another adventure. He likes the trees, the beach and the sea. Felicia and I decided to bring him to back to his favorite island – Bintan. We were thinking of Tioman Island but the 2-hour coach ride doesn’t sound appealing to us. Moreover, I have never been to Bintan. I have heard so many “erotic escapades” and “romantic tales” of this island. During my dating days, Bintan was a very popular getaway for young unmarried couples. Some of my friends have stayed at the famous Banyan Tree Resorts where lovers literally go Full Monty in their own 100% private villa-pools, watching the sunset. Sounds like “Temptation Island”.


For this particular trip, we won’t be heading to Banyan Tree Resorts. Specially for Elkan, we are going to have some exciting island life! My son wants to attempt new stuffs – sleeping over in a “kampong hut”, snorkeling, kayaking, surf-boarding, motor-scooter and air-rifle. He successfully attempted all of the activities but he freaked out most of it. We had so much fun watching him attempting those activities. Elkan was both curious and timid. Like a little kitten, he bounced in and out of action. He was one of the first few who jumped into the deep ocean and the first one who wanted out. He was the first who climbed into the kayak and the first one who fell off. He was the first one who suggested air-rifle and didn’t dare to come close to the thundering firing range. It took Elkan a while to feel safe before he tried these new activities. He enjoys risks and he wants to feel absolutely safe too. He is the perfect combination of “Kiasuism” (怕输) and “Kiasism” (怕死).
Time flies really fast on the island. There are so many things to do here – at different time, at different places. We spent 4 great days in Bintan (except for some disruptive work moments). Here are our favorite top “4 Colorful Moments”:
1) BLUE – THE POOL, THE SEA & THE FISHES
Here, Elkan achieved 3 of his “firsts” – Kayaking, Snorkeling and Backstroke Swimming! Took him a lot of guts and efforts to master them.
2) GREEN – THE TREES, THE ROCKS, THE ANIMALS, THE E-SCOOTER
We roamed the island on an e-Scooter, avoided a giant bee hive in the forest hike, conquered boulder rocks at the coast and fed deers at a mini zoo.
3) BROWN – LITTLE HUTS, SHOPPING, MASSAGE, DINNERS
Just 10-drive away – food, souvenirs and massage services are 30%-50% cheaper than the ones offered in the resort. We can’t afford the expensive (and lousy) food in the resort. We came out to this small town market huts for dinner and really nice Indonesian oil massage (SGD45 for 90 minutes).



4) ORANGE – SUNSET, KELONG
Beautiful sunset and a cool breezy place to dine, here you find a floating bar and restaurant (Kelong Style) on the sea. Stunning!


September 5, 2011 Leave a comment
After my last successful “cooking lesson” with my mum, I am back in Singapore this weekend to learn another favorite dish from her. This is one popular Malaysian Chinese dish which she has not cooked for me since my teenage. It has been one of my most favorite dishes, the “Paper-Wrapped Chicken” (纸包鸡).
The secret lies in the paper packs (self-made using baking paper) that conceal the full essence of the marinating flavors. Depending what taste you like, you may marinate the chicken with oyster sauce, black-pepper sauce, honey or even five-spices powder. The recipe is simple – Marinate, pack and deep fry the chicken. Emerged in the oil hot, the bag evenly cooked the chicken, concealing the rich taste inside. The outcome: Rich savory taste, juicy and tender chicken! Yummy!
August 30, 2011 Leave a comment
It was public holiday today and we decided to visit the Istana (which was opened to the public on special public holidays). Thousands flocked there hoping to get a last glimpse of President Nathan. It was our first visit to the Istana.
For Elkan, it was a day to run around on Orchard’s most prime 100-acre grassland! There were kiddy face paintings, playgrounds, swan lake, lily ponds, themed gardens and a nine-hole golf course too! Lots of lush greenery and beautiful flowers. It was a great day for family gatherings and picnic!
August 21, 2011 4 Comments
Happy Happy Happy Happy Birthday!!!! Last night, we celebrated four birthdays at a go!!!! Uncle Duuk, lovely Lionnel, sexy Kal and pretty, shy Claudia. It was a big gathering with Sam’s big gang and our latest members Joey, and upcoming youngest member, Jimmy and Serene’s baby! Yes! Finally, this year is a year of wishes come true for Jimmy, Serene and Lionnel. Congrats!
This year, Kal and I decided to try our hands on baking our first walnut carrot cakes! We made Claudia a princess cake! With a sweet gummy angel and lots of hearts and pearls candies.
We had a farm-theme for the 30-years olds. Moo moo Duuk, hopping long-ear Lionnel and meh meh Kal. We handmade little pictures and sprinkled colored rocks and flowers candies. All Wahbiang friends’ name were pasted round the cake too. We were kind of worry if it tasted as good as it looks. Fortunately, Auntie Annes gave a pass grade! Phew….. Heeee….. More to come soon…
Again, Happy Birthday to Claudia! Happy Birthday to Lionnel! Happy Birthday to Duuk! Happy Birthday and thanks to Kal for the baking and presenting the lovely polaroids for all. Thanks Karen for the lovely girl gifts! And thanks to our photographer Joanne for the lovely pics! Look forward to the next gathering!
August 14, 2011 Leave a comment
(Photo Taken: Smurftastic Soccer outside Cathay, Orchard Road, Singapore – See that big yellow card? Best to keep your hands off these smurfs. PAPa Smurf won’t hesitate to show you the red card. These little blue things may be our very best/last hope for World Cup Finals in Brazil in 2014.)
August 10, 2011 2 Comments
Last Saturday, my family took a ferry to Bintan in Indonesia. When we are there, we took an orange bus to the lobby to check in. While we are waiting, Qiqi and me were playing hide and seek. After checking in, a small little buggy that can fit five people, took us to our bungalow. My family stay in two different bungalows. It started to rain. My mummy blew a beach ball. We played the ball until dinner. Amy yi poh and Ah mah cooked dinner for the whole family. We had purple sweet potato porridge. There were scramble eggs, sardine, luncheon meat, veggies and chicken.
After the dinner, I bathed and slept on the floor in a sleeping bag. I felt scared sleeping on the floor because I was worried there was cockroaches under the bed. So my mother let me sleep on the bed with poh poh.
The next day, after breakfast, we went to the beach. I went deep into the sea. We found seashells, and dig small pools. After that, we went to the swimming pool. It was windy. Our beach ball flew into the pool and my mum tried to swim after it. But the ball flew away from the pool and went onto the ground. And I saved the ball’s life when I held it in my hands. We went home to bathe.
We took a grey bus to Pasar Ole to eat lunch and shop around. Gugu bought ice cream for us. After that, a man helped us to do a tattoo on our legs. Qiqi had a Minnie Mouse, my mum had a butterfly, Gugu had a spiky fish and I had a rocket on my leg! We went back to our bungalow after that. We went to the club house to make masks and find more seashells at the beach. Amy yi poh, my mother, Qiqi and me went to buy some bread and a cake for my great grand mother. And we saw eight Iguanas in a big glass cage. We went back and had BBQ for dinner. We eat the chicken wing but it was not all cooked. There was hotdogs, grapes, noodle, veggies, pork chop and jelly. The noodle was the most tasty.
The next morning, we went to the beach again. We walked to the forest side of the beach. And I saw a lot of dirty leaves from the sea. Then we walked back and jumped over some small rivers. We changed our tee shirts and ate lunch. Gugu bring us to a nice place. The driver drove us on a car with very big tyres and we splashed into the mud. It was exciting.
After that we walked back to our bungalow and checked out. We took the ferry back to Singapore and took a cab back to Tampines!
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It was a big gathering of families from Singapore and Muar. We have four generations from great grand granny to great grandson!
A one-hour ferry from Tenah Merah ferry terminal took us to Bintan Resorts. It was a smooth ride, unlike those ferry trips from HK to Macau or Zhuhai where Elkan pukes over Joe. We were greeted with sunny hot weather and lots of landscaped greenery. There were a few different resorts in Bintan. The Nirvana Suria bungalows we checked in were 2-stories with 3 spacious bedrooms on the second floor. And big fully equipped kitchen and living hall.In front of our bungalows was a big pond with water lilies and occasional sightings of a meter-long monitor lizards and small squirrels. Lots of beautiful flowers too.
Unfortunately, it started to rain in the afternoon. So we stayed indoors while the kids were kicking a beach ball around and mummies and grannies are scolding them for making a din while baby Jorance was trying to get an afternoon nap. The rain continued. Our mums and aunts decided to cook dinner instead of dining out. We found out that dining in Bintan was really expensive and all expenses are in Singapore dollars instead of Rupiah! This was not the usual travel light and easy trip. We loaded our luggage with lots of food! Our first dinner was simple dishes but was quite a spread! We had sweet potato porridge, canned vegetarian mushrooms, fried veggies, luncheon, stir fried chicken, sardines, steamed otah, fried eggs and fruits!
After dinner was chatting and watching TV while the kids were running up and down the staircase and playing hide and seek in the big bungalow. It doesn’t take long before they were hungry and asking for supper. Qiqi and Elkan shared 3 packets of instant noodles before they were satisfied and head for bed.
The next day, the kids were up early. As Bintan is an hour behind Singapore, and sunrise is much earlier, by 7am Singapore time, it was hot and sunny! The kids were bugging us to take them to the beach, so after a quick breakfast with sardine and bread toast, we headed out. The fine white sand was great! The shallow water stretched for quite a far distance into the sea. It was safe for the kids to roam around in the knee-high waters. Baby Jorance was enjoying every bit of it too. After less than 30 min, the scotching sun made us head for the cooler swimming pool instead. The pool was nicely shaped and sectioned for kids and adults under the shady coconut tress. We had so much fun with the underwater camera!
Lunch was great at Pasar Ole which was about 10-min coach ride to a small town. It was more like a tourist town for the guests of Bintan Resorts. A few restaurants and souvenir shops. I decided to do a little tattoo as I always wanted to but was worried about the needle and pain. But glad that this was a temporary one that last for only 2 weeks! It is similar to Henna but the colour looked like a real tattoo. Jovel, Qiqi and Elkan all picked a design and did a quick 5-min tattoo.
Jovel and me decided to send the two kids to the resort’s club house for a two-hour program where they are taken care of by the friendly staff to make face masks and pick seashells at the beach with other children. Back at the bungalow, our aunts called in masseurs for a one-hour pampering massage. While the uncles and dads laze at the balcony with peanuts and beers and updating stock market results from their laptops! And a nice view of bikini babes at the opposite bungalows from our balcony! I mean baby girls in bikinis lah….
Finally, we had our BBQ dinner! That emptied a few luggage! We brought our own chicken wings, pork chop, hotdogs, otah, sweet corns, sweet potatoes, seasoning, cup noodles, rice, papaya, bananas, dragon fruits, pineapple, lime juice, lots of biscuits, snacks, chocolates, teas, coffees, milos, disposable utensils and BBQ sauce. Amy Ah Yi brought 24 bottles of mineral water! We bought some eggs from the resort’s mini mart which cost 50 cents each! Some veggies were bought in the afternoon from Pasar Ole. Phew! That’s a lot of food! And it was a happy meal! Blurp….
Breakfast was great with Amy ah yi’s French toasts and scramble eggs. It was also a surprise breakfast for Ah Poh. We had a birthday cake for her. We wished her great health and lots of happiness. Really appreciate her traveling all the way from Muar to join us on this trip. It was rather tough for her especially during the long queues at the customs and ferry boarding. But she was all smiles through out with great spirit! Bravo Ah Poh!! All of us sang Happy Birthday in English and Chinese! Even baby Jorance was clapping his hands and enjoying it.
I took the kids to the beach again for dig more holes and find more seashells. The morning sun warmed on our face as we took a long scroll to the other end of the beach which was more rocky and forested. We went back after an hour. Jovel took the kids out on the second adventure! The big monster 4-wheel drive! While Jovel drove one of the cars with Qiqi, Elkan had an experienced driver to drive him. In the beginning, Elkan was screaming and commanding his driver to slow down so that he doesn’t vomit. But soon, he was asking for more speed and bums! They were heading into mud splashes! After a short 10-15 min ride, they were thrilled and their faces tanned! Lucky driver escaped Elkan’s puke!
Finally, we had to pack up and check out. We explored around the lobby and backyard, took more photographs before heading to the ferry terminal. Another smooth ride back and too soon we had to say goodbyes. Elkan asked if he could go back there again on the way back. He likes the beach and the sand! It was indeed a great trip. Most importantly, everyone enjoyed it. Would be great if the other boys, Leon, Chester and Joe were here. There would be mad fun! Looking forward to the next family gathering!
July 24, 2011 Leave a comment
It is never easy to leave my family behind to make a living thousands of miles away. Especially when goodbye is the hardest word to say.
Unlike my past Singapore trips, this trip I spent my last day at my own apartment – a nice cozy space which was designed by Felicia and I ten years ago. This morning, I woke in my old apartment with Elkan sleeping sandwiched between Felicia and I. It was a very strange feeling. The last we slept here was back in May 2006. Elkan was only 18-month old and he slept in his little baby cot. He is so tall now! My old folks were right – “children do grow up fast!”
I didn’t have the heart to wake my son today. He is always breaking my heart (or the other way). I left my home in a rush as I made a mistake in my flight timing. I left the apartment with Felicia waving behind me. (and later by the window when I boarded the cab). I looked up at my apartment and waved goodbye. Just like the old days except this time, I am taking a plane to work and I won’t be back for another 1 month. Felicia was a little disappointed not able to send me off at the airport.
It is a beautiful day today. Blue sky and a warm sunrise. The last few days have been more than great. Absence does make the hearts grow fonder. Only if we make time for the ones we love.
July 24, 2011 1 Comment
After 5 long years of closure, “Hotel 25” (my 3-decade-old flat at block 25) opens its door tonight for an exclusive Wahbiang Party. This is the first time I step into my old apartment since I left Singapore back in 2006. Thanks to my gentle and wonderful tenants, the apartment is very well-maintained. This place brings back lots of memories. From my early childhood in the early 80s to my marriage in 2000 and then fatherhood in 2004, I have been living here for more than 3 decades – first with my parents and now with my wife and son.
Since I left Singapore, we have been renting this place to expats and young couples. I didn’t have any chance to stop by and take a look at my apartment. I am lucky this time as my last tenants just moved out recently and we are still shortlisting new potential ones. The apartment will be vacant for 1-2 weeks. I decided to invite the Wahbiang gang over for a “nostalic gathering”. (Our last big gathering at Hotel 25 took place in 2004 – that was Elkan’s Baby Shower party!). Most of them miss this place too. What a great place to gather all of my buddies for a small party on my last night in Singapore.
We have a big turn-out tonight. 80% of the Wahbiang Clan were here. It was an extraordinary messy, crowded (and noisy) and hot gathering. The adults were suffering from the stuffy air. (Our main aircon broke down). The kids were running and screaming loudly, terrorizing the poor neighbors downstairs. After a few “knocking” warnings, my neighbors came up to my apartment and banged the door. Thinking it was my tenants who were making the noise, she yelled at my guests. I quickly walked to the door to apologize. It took her 2-3 seconds to recognize me. The moment she realized it was me, her “angry expression” disappeared instantly. She was embarrassed about her hostility. In an unexpected twist, my neighbors apologized and told us to continue with our party.
I would like to say a big thank you to those who turned up tonight. Thanks for your time and efforts…there were a lot of food and drinks (and please remember to spank your naughty kids for terrorizing the peace). We also welcome a new (young and pretty) member in our clan – JOEY – Meijie brought his new girlfriend to meet the clan members for the first time. I hope she enjoyed her first gathering with us (Yixi was pretty mean to her in the Q&A)…and hope to see her more often in our future gatherings! Thank you guys for making this place so full of life again! I guess it is one night that my neighbors will remember for a long long time.