Meet my 2 very colorful and lovely “family” from Shanghai – Little Francis “Grey” and Little Echo “Violet” (my 133rd Hong Kong visitor). I couldn’t recognised these 2 kids! When I left Shanghai in 2008, Violet was just a month old. Just like her mum and granny, Violet possesses strong characters and good genes. She is curious, cheerful, sweet and spicy. What a charming 3-year-old girl! She speaks fluent Mandarin – much better than Elkan and her brother. Grey on the other hand, is an amazing replica of Francis! His eyes, his moves and his personalities are just like his daddy – strong, daring and independent. The kids had a great time together (terrorizing the adults with their loud noise and limitless hyper-energy!).
Meet my 131st Hong Kong Visitor, Fiona Shen. She is exceptional! (She is one of the few Singaporeans who worked at Apple HQ in Cupertino, California! No, she won’t tell me anything about iPad3 or iPhone 5!) We have known each other for 25 years. She is one of my closest primary school girlfriends. And she holds the record for being my first…. (It is not something that I am proud of… but it is something which I can never erase from my mind.) Trust me, it was pretty physically and mentally intense.
Well, meet the girl who gave me my first slap. I was only 12 when I lost my virgin “slap” to her. It happened at her house, in front of all her guests during her 12th birthday party. I accurately accidentally shot her eyes with a rubber band just minutes before she was about to cut her birthday cake. It musta hurt like hell, if not, she won’t gave me a “love mark” that lasted this long. It was a terrible attack. She walked over, gave me a big slap on my left cheek and ran to her room (shut the door). Her guests and parents kicked me out of the house. Ouch! It all happened within 5 minutes and when I left her house, I have no idea what hit me.
Well, we still joke about that incident at every Primary school gatherings. And thanks goodness, I didn’t develop phobia for woman. I just hate rubber bands and birthday cakes since that day. (That reminds me why I have never got any more birthday invitation from Fiona since…).
My prankster is back! Together with his favorite accomplice, Harshad, they went terrorizing the streets of Hong Kong. While Felicia, Tracy and I were doing our grocery shopping, Elkan and Harshad did a short “Black Street Boys” at the Central Market at Soho this morning.
I was feeling sad today. At the departure gate, I was trying to hide my sadness from my dad. I really wish he can extend a day or two. I wish we can have more time sharing our stories – just like the old days at the old flat at Eunos. Over the past 5 days, I showed my dad my life in Hong Kong – my home, my office, my friends, my life – where I work, where I shop, what I eat and where I party.
This is one special trip that I have been looking forward to for the longest time. For the last 10 years, I have neglected my dad. Ever since I had my own apartment and working overseas, Daddy and I hardly have time for one another. We met up every time I went back to Singapore but our contact time was so brief. My daddy has suddenly aged a lot over the recent years. Unlike my chatty and mischievous mum, Dad is usually a fatherly figure of little words. Nevertheless, he is one person I miss so dearly. (Mum and wife are going to be jealous reading this!)
It took me many months (and countless rejections) to get him to visit me in Hong Kong. Daddy has phobia traveling alone. (In fact, this is his first solo flight without any friends or family! I am so proud of him!) I didn’t invite anyone but my dad for this trip as I wanted an exclusive “father-&-son” bonding time with no distraction. I was so happy when my dad finally agreed to take leave from his volunteer work to spend 5 days with me in Hong Kong!
Over the past 5 days, we went to many places. It is Daddy’s first trip to Macao, Shenzhen and Dongguan. We watched the “House of Dancing Water”, gadget-hunting at the IT Malls at Shenzhen, partied at Dongguan, 7am 5km hike, dolphin-watching at Tai-O and visited the “Big Buddha” at Lantau Island. I rediscovered so much things about my dad. From hiking to parties, my old man is 200% fitter than me. I had difficulty keeping up with his pace. He sleeps only 4-5 hours a day. He does hiking effortlessly and he can hold his liquor much better than me. And yes, my Daddy is still so charming with his jokes, tales and singing.
It was an amazing reunion. And I really enjoyed every minute of his company. There are words that my dad never tell me. That night at the pub, he told one of my friends many great things about me. Moved by my dad’s words, she came over to tell me what he said. I was so moved to tears.
Dad, thanks for being so proud of me. And I love you too. See you soon.
While my mum and aunties were busily shopping at Guangzhou city center, Tracy, Harshad, Mike and I made our way to the famous Changlong Wildlife Zoo and Changlong International Circus. Tracy got us a package deal. The HKD456 package includes a one-way 3-hour bus ride from Hong Kong to Changlong and tickets to both zoo and circus. Not bad for a short weekend getaway.
This is one zoo that allows visitors to be in close proximity with the animals. The name says “wildlife” but most of these so-called “wildlife animals” aren’t people or camera-shy. In fact, we suspected the animals are retired-circus performers.
My first impression was “this looks like our world’s best zoo” back in Singapore. A pretty decent copycat, I thought. It has both day and night zoo. Animals are sorted by their region origins (namely Africa, India, Australia etc). Big open enclosures, natural habitats, cleverly barricaded with natural obstacles (bushes, canals, valleys) to prevent the animals from escaping. The in-zoo breeding program seems successful. There are lots of tigers, pandas and koala bears here. We saw many tiger cubs at the nursery. What impressed me most was the close proximity between the visitors and the animals. Imagine we were just “5cm-glass-wall” away from the Siberian Tiger. Not sure if this is healthy for the animals. The close proximity allows visitors to observe the animals closely but I am sure the prolonged noise and flashlights from the visitors will stress the animals badly.
On foot, the entire zoo-walk stretches about 3km. At the end of our walk, we hopped on a tram and it brought us into an open “Safari” where the savanna animals roam freely along the driveway. The zoo-keepers placed food by the driveway so the animals were drawn close to the tram. The more dangerous predators (lions, cheetahs, brown bears, hippopotamus, rhinoceros) were kept behind barriers.
Later in the evening, my mum and aunties joined us at the Changlong International Circus. It is mentioned on many travel websites that the Changlong International Circus outclassed Macau’s Cirque du Soleil’s ZAIA. Yes, the reviews are right! The 90-min show is a mixture of ZAIA, The House of Dancing Water and the typical animal circus. The acts took place on and off stage and over the audience. There were some elements of surprises. It was very entertaining, fun and spectacular. Certainly more lively and exciting than ZAIA.
Based on the package price (transport, zoo and circus), it is definitely worth a visit! I would love to stay over at the Changlong Hotel! It is amazing to see white tigers running freely by the hotel lounge. A brilliant hotel concept of blending wildlife and people!
It is an unusual weekend for me. 3 days, 3 cities with 3 hyper-active aunties ladies. It is quite an awesome short holiday. Thanks to my lucky Auntie Amy – she won a pair of air tickets to Hong Kong and invited both my mum and her friend “Auntie Diana” (my 130th HK Visitor) over this weekend. Auntie Amy and mum have been to Hong Kong many times and they wanted to experience something different. So I suggested a quick-tour to Shenzhen and Guangzhou. It was also my mum’s 63rd Birthday. Mum got herself a giant “ice-kacang cake”. It has been over 5 years since I celebrated her birthday with her. Boy, I was so happy to be able to spend her actual birthday with her in China.
It was a short but very enjoyable (and tiring) trip. As usual, Auntie Amy greeted me with the same old irritating punchline “You are getting fat again!” Empress Mum commanded and bossed me around. I was her exclusive porter for 3 days. But it was all fun! These ladies can really walk, shop and eat! From 7am to 2am, they were super high on energy! Can’t believe I was the quietest one in this trip.
This is one trip when I discovered new things about my old folks. Auntie Amy and mum were exceptionally mischievous and full of pranks. No wonder I see the similarities in Elkan. Mischief is always in the blood. (And it skipped a generation – no lah, I didn’t get their genes). Mum was making comical moves and faces in all photo shoots. And Auntie Amy was full of surprises and actions! Out of the blue, she stood on a giant swing and swung standing! And not to mention those hilarious candid “R-rated” jokes they cracked throughout the trip! Simply incredible! Really these aren’t ordinary “aunties”. It is so cool to have such modern, adventurous and spontaneous folks.
Time flies quickly, the ladies flew back to Singapore 3 hours ago. Bet they enjoyed this trip a lot. Sigh, wish they can stay a day or two longer. They made such great travel companions and I am looking forward to travel with them soon! I start missing them already… (Thanks Harshad, Tracy and Cousin for joining us in China too! For sure, the more, the older, the merrier!)
(Photo Taken: Apple Store, Hong Kong – Steve is no Head of State, King or Pope but he is well-loved and worshiped by millions around the world. Over the past 3 days at the newest Apple Store (IFC Mall, Hong Kong), thousands of fans came to pay their last respect to the man who changed the world. Words of condolences were pasted on the storefront window. A touching sight.)
12 years away from home - Singapore. Writing my stories here for my lovely mum & dad, friends and most importantly, for my wife & son back home. A self-confessed gadget freak, a spontaneous prankster on the outside and a warm loving heart inside. Enjoying a happy life with loving families, friends plus a dream job. Realising mum’s motto – “Exceed Yourself Every Day”. Always believing that “Simplicity is Beauty”.
182: Uncle Tan (Dad's friend)
181: Jumbo Angs Brothers
179: Stell
178: Muar Auntie 2nd
177: Ms Soo Huiwah
176: Danny
175: Jasbir Kaur
174: Rebecca Bian
173: Echo & Hubby
172: Jimmy, Serene & family
167: Qiaoqiao (cousin-in-law)
166: Dendy and Shin
164: Raghu & Colleague
162: Estell (Lionnel & Joey's Gal)
161: Eva Camry
160: Joanne's Mum and Dad
158: WeiQiang & Family
155: Kalinda's Sister
154: Manfred Goh
153: William Tang
152: Tay Kay Chin
151: Pearlyn and Family
147: Calvin Mao (Shanghai)
146: Ice (Indonesia)
145: Jorance Poh
144: Shuying and Mum
142: Uncle Bok (Dad's Friend)
141: Jaslyn Lim
140: Cousin Chester
139: Ching Ging Ng (Chester's Friend)
138: Martin Heng and Mari (Japan)
135: Edmund Bay (Tracy's Brother)
134: Sherane (Joanne's Cousin)
133: Violet Chey (Echo's Princess)
132: Echo's Mum (Shanghai)
131: Fiona Shen (USA - Ex-KCPS)
130: Auntie Diana (Mum's Friend)
129: Joey (Lionnel's Wife!)
128: Ming (Shanghai)
127: Johnny (Shanghai)
126: Nick Ahnen (Alaska)
125: Richard (Caffeine)
124: Chin (Richard's Friend)
123: Baby "J" (Boi and April's Son)
122: Jean (Tracy's Buddy!)
121: Lionel Wong (Ex-KCPS)
120: Hui Qing (Lionel's Wife)
119: Dylan (Lionel's Son)
118: Mindy (Ex-Dunman)
117: Uncle Bay (Tracy's Dad)
116: Yifu
115: Lilian (Yifu's Wife)
114: Ashley (Yifu's Daughter)
113: Yifu's Friend (UK)
112: Jenny
111: Cousin Alvin
110: Yin San (Auntie)
109: Aron (Auntie's BF)
108: Auntie Fong
107: Carrine Soh
106: Wenxu
105: Mun Foong (ex-Temasek)
104: Mok Ching (ex-Temasek)
103: Sabrina Kong (ex-Temasek)
102: Agnes (ex-Temasek) and friend
101: Nishant (Harshad's friend)
100: Juliana Goh
099: Duuk Leong
098: Zach Leong
097: Kalinda Low
093: Randy Ang
092: Granny (Muar)
091: Issac Chen (Guofeng's Son)
090: Cousin Ben (Malacca) and family
085: Leonard
084: Wendy
083: Chern Hui
081: 3rd Uncle (Canada)
080: 3rd Auntie (Canada)
079: Chen (Taiwan)
077: Cousin Yei (Shanghai)
076: Summer (Shanghai)
075: Kenneth (Cicada)
074: Karen (Kenneth's wife)
073: Alicia Gan (Shanghai)
072: Ethan (Chee Bin's Son)
071: Michelle (Chee Bin's Wife)
070: Cousin Chee Bin
069: Aimei Ong (Ex-Dunman)
068: Rovis Lee (Ex-KCPS)
067: Hovman Goh
066: Alicia and Friends
059: Sam Tan Yixi
058: Auntie Jacqueline (Muar)
054: Ming Caleb
053: Ernest Goh (Ex-Temasek)
052: Desmond Wong
051: Heidi Tang (Shanghai)
050: Serene Chia
049: Alex Wee (Tracy's Friend)
048: Kevin Cheong (Vietnam)
047: Sally (Felicia's Friend)
046: Jack (Felicia's Friend)
045: Echo Ye (Shanghai)
044: Gray Chay (Shanghai)
043: Francis Chay (Shanghai)
042: Auntie Zhu (Muar)
041: Michelle (Chee Bin's Wife)
040: Alston
039: Charlie
038: Karen Loo
037: Hong Ai (Shanghai)
036: Charlyn Ding
035: Francis Goh (Beijing)
034: Jimmy Teo
033: April (Boi's Wife)
032: Dorothy (Eric's wife)
031: Scott Lin
030: Kevin and Family (ex-DCS)
026: Cousin Tao (Canada)
025: Jane
024: Yiyi
023: Chups Tam
022: Ellen Yong and BF (Malaysia)
020: Stella Tam
019: Mother-in-law
018: Auntie Nyong (Malacca)
017: Eric Goh
016: Meijie
014: Guofeng
013: Ivy
012: Xavier
011: My Dad
010: My Mum
009: Qiqi
008: My Sister
007: James
006: Auntie Amy
005: Uncle Benny
004: Winston
003: Boi
002: Cousin Leon
001: Joanne Ang
Wahbiang Birthdays
07 Jan - Felicia
10 Jan - Karen
24 Jan - Echo
28 Jan - Ivy
06 Feb - Hock
12 Feb - Mann Chuan
04 Mar - Francis
08 Mar - Hovman
24 Mar - Joanne
12 Apr - Gareth
26 Apr - Charlie
16 May - Tracy
15 Jun - Joe
17 Jul - Juliana
16 Aug - Meijie
27 Aug - Duuk
31 Aug - Kalinda
11 Oct - Sam
03 Dec - Jimmy
14 Dec - Lilian
17 Dec - Lusia